The Birds Meet the Bees (On To the Next One; Curve Season)
“#Truthfully Speaking, why is it historically that men will leave and be alone, but women have to have plan A, B and C in place” – Da Truth
I want to first preface this by saying that I do not hold women completely culpable for having and exercising their options. I know that my male followers and readers may disagree, but the truth is, women have been taught to have and exercise options from their time in the womb. You can read and refer to The Kappa Relays (futureoftruthpoetry.blogspot.com) for further knowledge on that, but options have always been there for women. Truthfully Speaking, half of the men in relationships right now were the plan “B” before they became plan “A”. Turnabout is sometimes fair play and that’s just life.
As I stated before, I can’t complete blame women today for maintaining and keeping options. If I was to blame anyone, it would be Eve. Eve laid the foundation for every woman that is alive today. Eve had Adam, everything was going great in The Garden of Eden and he was taking care of business. One day Eve decides that she is not completely satisfied and takes a stroll through the garden, alone. She ends up talking to a snake (another man) and he now convinces her that although she may think she is happy at this moment, she is missing out on so much more. See, the game was played way back then. A woman can take being alone, but she can’t take being lonely. Adam probably went into the field every day, naming new animals, plowing the field, killing food to bring home and it may have left Eve being ALONE sometimes. Every relationship’s most important obstacle is balancing alone and lonely. As Adam kept doing the business he was created to do, Eve eventually became LONELY and thus opened the mental door for the snake to enter.
“#thesetup Fellas, that dude you constantly keep passing in the stairwell is NOT a cousin or a coincidence” – Da Truth
Almost every woman in a relationship has a backup for when we as men mess up. Back in high school, that backup was always her “cousin”. You remember the dude that used to always be around her and when you asked about him, she said that he was just her cousin and they were very close. Technology has now enhanced the game and made it harder for you to figure out if you getting #thecurve. Remember what I stated earlier; you were once plan B before you became plan A. Now, you are now asking yourself how can you tell if she has a plan B and C. The first way to tell is that you are asking the question to yourself. Your inner man is constantly trying to tell you when you are being hit with #thecurve. Secondly, if she always talked to friends or texted in front of you and now she goes in the other room or her phone is constantly locked; you may be getting hit with #thecurve. Lastly, if she is now hanging with a long lost male cousin or talking to a friend from back in high school that she was close with; you may be getting hit #thecurve. It’s a hard pill to swallow, but Da Truth is always hard to swallow…lol. For the women that will undoubtedly email me or comment and ask if I have been hit #thecurve; the answer is maybe I have and I just never knew it. Just remember one thing ladies; men have been playing baseball our entire lives so where do you think #thecurve was mastered? I love you all and thank you for being educated and entertained. Take Heed. Take your time. Take it slow.
